Graham Platner and the therapy script every disgraced politician now follows

Graham Platner’s political career deserved to end. There’s no doubt about that.

A detailed sexual assault allegation against a U.S. Senate candidate is more than enough for a political party to conclude he can no longer represent it. Democrats were right to force him off the ballot. Political parties aren’t courts of law, and they don’t owe candidates the presumption of innocence that criminal defendants receive. They owe voters sound judgment, and in this case, they exercised it.

What interested me most wasn’t Platner’s downfall. It was how familiar (and pathetic) his response sounded.

As a psychotherapist, I’ve spent several years watching the language of therapy migrate far beyond the consulting room. Words such as trauma, healing, authenticity, emotional safety, and lived experience were meant to help people understand themselves. Today, they’ve become staples of politics, corporate communications, and celebrity crisis management. Platner’s 11-minute video sounded less like an unusual response to scandal than the latest performance in a script we’ve all heard before.

He denied the allegation against him, but much of his statement focused on something else entirely. He described the political establishment, the forces he believed wanted him gone, the allies who abandoned him, and the personal toll the controversy had taken. The allegation itself became only one part of a much larger story, one in which Platner wasn’t just the accused. He was also the aggrieved.

That shift is the real story.

The old crisis-management playbook emphasized facts: address the accusation. Clarify what happened. Admit what you must. Deny what isn’t true. Protect yourself legally. Today’s playbook is different. Its purpose is more than answering the allegation. It’s to redirect the audience’s sympathy.

The objective is subtle but powerful. If the public starts asking whether the accused has been treated fairly instead of asking what he actually did, the conversation has already changed. The accused is no longer viewed only as someone under investigation. He’s competing for the status of victim.

We’ve seen this play out repeatedly. Politicians, celebrities, CEOs, university leaders, and media personalities now respond to scandal in remarkably similar ways. The names change, but the script barely does. There is almost always a story about betrayal, misunderstanding, unfairness, isolation, or personal devastation. Public disgrace is reframed as something happening to the accused rather than something he may have brought upon himself.

Maine Democratic U.S. Senate candidate Graham Platner speaks at an anti-war rally in Portland, Maine, on Jan. 3, 2026. (Troy R. Bennett/ZUMA Press Wire via Newscom)

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As someone who practices psychotherapy, I find that especially troubling because therapy was never meant to provide a public relations strategy. At its best, therapy asks people to examine themselves honestly, tolerate uncomfortable truths, and accept responsibility where responsibility exists. Yet much of its vocabulary has been repurposed into something very different. Emotional disclosure has become reputation management. Vulnerability has become a communications tactic. Self-reflection has been replaced by carefully staged self-presentation.

None of this means every accused person is guilty. False accusations exist, and every allegation deserves to be investigated carefully. People have every right to defend themselves. But there’s an important difference between offering a factual defense and constructing an emotional narrative designed to compete with the alleged victim for the public’s sympathy. One seeks to establish what happened. The other seeks to change what people are paying attention to.

Platner’s strategy ultimately failed because Democratic leaders concluded that the allegation itself, not his emotional narrative, made him an unacceptable nominee. They looked past the performance and made a political judgment. That won’t always happen. Emotional storytelling often works precisely because it changes the subject.

Politicians have always tried to save themselves. What’s changed, though, is the language they use to do it. Therapy was supposed to help people confront reality, not escape it. But once its vocabulary became part of the crisis-management industry, it offered something else: a way for disgraced public figures to compete with their accusers for our empathy.

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Every public scandal now risks becoming a contest between two claims of victimhood. The more time we spend evaluating whose emotional story is more compelling, the less time we spend asking the question that matters most: What actually happened?

That’s a terrible trade. And until we stop rewarding emotional performance over factual accountability, disgraced public figures will keep delivering the same speech. Only the names will change.