Dear Abby: I planned a road trip with an erratic driver

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A reader writes to Dear Abby expressing concern about an upcoming road trip with a companion who drives erratically and dangerously. The letter raises a common dilemma: how to address safety worries without offending a friend or family member. Abby's advice column tackles the tension between loyalty and personal well-being, exploring whether the writer should speak up beforehand, suggest an alternative arrangement, or find a diplomatic way to bow out of the trip entirely. The column offers guidance on navigating a situation where declining politely could preserve the relationship while protecting everyone on the road.