‘Loneliness influencers’ are racking up views. After a breakup, I see the appeal | Dave Schilling

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A middle-aged writer navigates the aftermath of a failed relationship and finds himself drawn to the growing phenomenon of "loneliness influencers", content creators who monetize solitude and romantic cynicism on social media. While the appeal of withdrawing from the dating game is real, he wrestles with whether embracing permanent loneliness is actually the answer, or if the romanticization of isolation reflects broader cultural despair about love and connection. The piece explores how breakups make these narratives tempting, yet questions whether loneliness content offers genuine wisdom or simply profitable nihilism.